today after school, we went to my daddy's so i could go through 'my room' and collect stuff for a garage sale we're having this weekend.
'my room' is the room i grew up in in our house, and it pretty much looks the same as the way i left it on november 16, 2001, the day before we got married. except the center of it is filled to the gills with furniture and boxes of stuff we don't use or need.
my sweet, long-suffering daddy. he's lived there 10+ years now without all that space to use! haha! i love him so. :0)
so i was able to let the kids roam free and play with grandpa and barbara while i sorted through boxes and collected things for the sale. gosh, there's so much stuff! but the job went a lot smoother with my built-in babysitters. :0)
i couldn't help but get nostalgic while i was working. so many memories in that room! it's like an adolescent museum! not many kids' childhood rooms are still intact. it's as if time froze there. i love it. i'm so grateful i was able to keep it that way.
the afternoon sunlight coming in was so pretty, too. beams coming in on my cluttered dresser...
(which, for the record, was never that cluttered when i was growing up. it's become sort of a dumping ground this past decade.)
that photo on the right? my dance team photo for senior year.
the framed white thing with corsage on the left? that's the corsage J gave me at our junior prom when he was my date. and the framed paper is a poem he wrote me about us growing up together. he gave it to me when he brought me back home after prom. that's our picture from when he picked me up in front of our house in the bottom right of the frame. it's all been there since the day after our prom. so april or may of 1993. i'm so thankful he got me a silk flower corsage. it never died! :0) so prophetic, really...that's the only silk one i ever received. any other one from any other boy was real flowers that eventually died.
that yarn braided head hanging on wall to the left? my mother's mother made that for me when i was a little girl to hang my bows on. M fell in love with it, and she brought it home tonight. it caused me to recall how crafty my grandmother was. always knitting, crocheting or crafting something. and she sent me her works all the time. so it's no wonder i love to make things!
the lovely white dresser? from the white canopy bedroom suite many, many little girls of the late 70s and 80s had. :0) i hope to one day put it in an entry way or use in the girls' room.
when i made it around to the closet, i could not resist spending time with my dance team uniforms. i knew it was time to introduce my girls to these...

oh, the sacred pom-poms. and oh, how they loved them!! made my heart so happy.
i worked until dinner time, and J joined us about that time since he works nearby. daddy and barbara ordered pizzas, and we all sat together in the formal dining room and ate, talked and laughed. the dining room windows were open, with curtains now sheer--a new barbara touch! i've always loved sheers!
i couldn't stop looking toward the window. i've always had a thing for passing homes in the twilight and being able to see into the house with their lights through the open windows. always a bonus when you can see the families interacting, too!
it made my heart happy tonight that we were one of those homes. we rarely used that dining room growing up since there were only three of us, but i always, always longed to use it. so it was special for all of us to be in there together tonight. anyone who passed by would see a happy family like i like to see.
i couldn't help but think that it would be ours sometime soon. i cannot wait to have people over in that same room, and perhaps at the same table. nothing's more meaningful to me than a house full of people, food and laughter. that spirit lingers on long after the company has left. i can't wait.
i love my family!